I just stumbled upon Ovidiu Oprescu blog. Ovidiu is a fellow guitarist who lost a band member and I shared my thoughts on his blog. I thought I would echo them here.
So… What are you going to do if you have a band and someone quits?
That’s tough! I’ve played in lot’s of rock bands where we’re all good friends and thought we had a vision to go all the way and it just never happened. I finally arrived to the conclusion that if I was going to forge a career in music or just want to play for fun. Playing the music I loved, I would have to figure out a way to do it on my own.
So I grew up playing rock guitar in several top 40 and original rock groups. Did a little touring even studied jazz for a couple of years in a commercial music program in college. I’m not much of a singer but just love playing and improvising on guitar so I created an instrumental group.
I even put down the electric and began playing nylon string. (weird… as I started on nylon, then got my first electric and never thought I’d look back) However after seeing guys like Ottmar Liebert, Al Dimeola, Paco DeLucia, etc… I though I could do something like kind of like that. No Vocals, just playing instrumental guitar melodies all night long and people just might buy a cd or come out to a self promoted concert to support my guitar junkie habit!
Ok, so here’s my point… To make this work I created a group that’s all my own. I’m the guy, the band leader. Then I went out to find a circle of good musicians to play in the band. I have a short list of players I can call on that can jump in and play. By that I mean I have a couple of bass players, drummers, guitarists, keyboard players, etc…
By doing this it’s kept me alive playing my guitar, chasing my dream and if John Doe doesn’t want to play in the group anymore, it’s ok, the band doesn”t have to fold. I can go to my list and I’ll still playing.
The cool thing now is because of this I have a growing network of players everywhere (internationally). I can call up a guitar buddy in USA or Japan to say, hey, I’m going to play in your area would you like to join me for a few performances! Or do you know someone that can sit in a play drums, bass or ??
So it’s truly wonderful to keep playing with the same group of friends but it doesn’t always work out so why not create your own vision and invite players to join in. If they loose interest, it’s ok. There are lot’s of us players that would love to sit in.
Btw… I also get called on by other band leaders to sit in or join the act if a player bails and that’s really cool too! Sometimes it pays and sometimes it’s just for the love of playing
Cheers











